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About 4 minutes

Attachment style

Twelve questions about closeness and distance. Answer for how you generally are, across relationships, not for one person in particular.

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Questions
Up to 12
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Yours alone. Not shared, not published, not shown to admins.
Taking it again
Worth revisiting after about 180 days. Every attempt is kept, so you can see what moved.
Based on
  • Experiences in Close Relationships — Revised (Fraley, Waller & Brennan)

Questions are written for this site in the spirit of these scales, not copied from them.

Attachment patterns describe a tendency, not a fixed type, and they shift with experience. This is a mirror, not a label.