About 8 minutes

Relationship health check

Twenty-eight questions about how things actually are, not how you would like them to be. Nobody else sees your answers, and you can take it again whenever you like: each attempt is kept, so you can watch what changes.

So your answers are saved and only you can read them.

Questions: Up to 41 — fewer if some do not apply to you
Privacy: Yours alone. Not shared, not published, not shown to admins.
Taking it again: Worth revisiting after about 90 days. Every attempt is kept, so you can see what moved.
Based on: Relationship Assessment Scale (Hendrick)
Investment Model Scale (Rusbult)
Gottman’s Four Horsemen
Triangular Theory of Love (Sternberg)
Revised Dyadic Adjustment Scale
Questions are written for this site in the spirit of these scales, not copied from them.

This is a prompt for reflection, not a diagnosis, and it cannot tell you what to do. If something here worries you, talk to a therapist or counsellor rather than to a score.