We were out in market to buy tiles. We got late. Daksh is really helping us these days, by being brave and responsible. He agrees to remain at home along with Bhavika. She takes care of Bavika when she wake up.

Usually, Daksh do something that caused Bhavika to wake up early. Either by his TV or tablet sound.

In the meantime, Bhavika wake up and she did potty. Our dear Daksh helped her cleaning it. I remember its the second time, he did it. It was a big help.

Daksh helped Bhavika clean 

I don't know, how much I prayed GOD for this. I lost few of my sleep because of this. I regret my decision of buying this flat because of this.

Today, the guy promised that he will bring the railing. The main hurdle is that Jaypee guards should let it come in. Its the main hurdle. I'm in so much tension.

The fabricator guy is so useless that he refused even today. Come on. Its been so many days, I think around 15 days. I'm listening from Ramesh, that he promised today, now after 2 days, after 2 days. I warned Ramesh that I had a bad experience with the same guy. How can these people do their work.

Today Balcony should be fixed

I talked to him, and just wished him luck for future. I did to ask whether your business is to doing well, and bla-bla. I told him, you didn't meet before going. And wished him luck.

I was actually feeling bad for him, as people come to this city to fulfill their dreams. And, they were probably in bad financial conditions. Rahul mentioned this before, that his business is not doing well.

I also thought that people, do overspend, just for show-off. They were like this. If your financial condition is not good, then it is your responsibility to reduce your expenses, keep your kids in less expensive schools. But, no.

Rahul (Father of Harsh) Left Noida finally

Yesterday, Daksh and Bhavika wwere playing. Daksh, as usual, became extra energetic. And, I don't know what exactly they were doing, Bhavika got hurt by a sharp corner of almirah. And, it was blood. It was a sharp cut. She cried a lot. I took her, Kanika took her. She cried for almost half an hour. 

Kanika applied some medicine. Bhavika was demanding a thorough care throughout the day. We pampered her a lot. In afternoon, I brought some other medicine. Which did some wonders to her wound. I went to temple in evening with her. And, she was in my arms throughout the time, in temple. Although, we went on her cycle.

In night, the time to put some more medicine before sleep. She said, "Thik ho gaya". (Its all healed). Medicine is finished :)

Bhavika got hurt, little deep cut in her leg's finger

Today, Shivi called Kanika and did some chit-chat.

Shivi told her that her marriage is fixed in November. And, her brother Shubham who is in USA since last 4-5 years, can not come. Due to some VISA problem.

My philosophy of not going abroad got some backing from these incidents. I mean, what is the point if you can not come in the happy and sad times of your family. What is the point in earning money then.

Few months back, her both parents were admitted to hospital due to Covid. And, they were all alone wiwth tie daughter. What is the point!

Shivi marriage, and I think her brother cant attend her wedding

Kanika was talking to Harsh's mother about any play school for our daughter. She informed her that they are going to Jaipur, and leaving Noida. He is joining a company. He was doing a business here, and it might not working well.

Rahul (Father of Harsh) is leaving Noida

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I was almost restless throughout the day about the railing. Today was the day, railing has to come. I talked to Ramesh, our contractor, and he said it will come by 3. 

I did my lunch, and go straight there. I waited till 4:30, and asked again. He called the guy who was making railing. He said, it will come in 2 days. I was furious over him. I said, why are you keepig me in false promise, didn't you talk to him. he gave me some excuse.

Waiting for railing to come 

Today was my time for getting second dose of vaccination. It was scheduled at 12:30 in my office. I went, and it was smooth except the guy at counter was not finding my records for 1st dose.

Lets see, if I will get any fever or not.

I got my Second Dose of Covishield - Corona Time

We bought another flat in Jaypee Klassic B1-204 last month.

We were having some construction in flat. The flat was in such a good condition that we could start living in the flat. But, when someone has some extra money, they start wasting it. Anyway, we wanted to have a living room balcony there, and remove 2 walls to have a full fledged slider there, to have a big look.

But, everything requires a permission from Jaypee. Its been almost a month since the work started. And, 2 times the work has stopped. As Jaypee personals had come to stop the work. And strange thing is they came for a balcony which was already built. So, I had to goto Jaypee office 2 times. 

In first visit, I got approval for alimunium sliders. I forgot to add the safety grills in it. And, the guards were very strict. I did give some money to the superviser Vipin. And just by his support, we proceeded for the work. 

When I went first, Vipin straight away said, it can't be done. I was like, come on. How this can't be done? Then, he helped me in visiting to some senior there. And, somehow we got the permission. But, I forgot to add the railing.

Then, they somehow saw our already extended balcony. And, they kept on saying that this is not allowed. Which was something already built, I had to reply on. That guy was also understanding this, but I did not understand why he was there to stop the work.

Again, I went. This time, we couldn't find any senior staff. So, I had to come back. But, I got his permission to get the trolly unloaded.

I went in evening, and waited for Mr Arvind for almost half an hour, he came. And, went. Asking to meet some other guy. I met him, and he straight away said that let them do any work. I was like, great. But, give me this in permission as these guys do not listen. To which he said, I will not give anything in written, but its allowed. I nodded this with that Jaypee guy and Vipin.

I was happy, that I got the permission for everything.

I think tomorrow is the time, when the railing will come and it will be installed in a day or two. And, today guard said I will not allow railing. I again, became furious, sad and angry. Only that junior most guard was complaining. I asked, why are you becoming hero. You are disturbing now. He argued for few time, and I asked him to keep quite, and allow the stuff tomorrow. I gave him offer of 200 Rs.

Somehow, he agreed. But, I do not have faith in him.

Lets see tomorrow. I'm too much in prayer mode.

But, its so much tension for sure. I was regretting buying this flat. As, it was much tension. We could have bought some expensive flat with nno hasstle. It is just to save some money, we bought this flat.

Its a headache since we bought the flat

So, I started running again since last 3 days. As I mentioned, I left the plan to leave Aobde now. And, the plan seems to be a long one :)

I thought of giving time to my health now. 

Today, as I parked my cycle. I met Amit, he was running with his wife. I was surprised, and greeted. We talked, I did a full round of running with him.

And, then another round alone. Running is one of the best exercise for full body. I hope to continue it for long time.

Starting Running again since Monday, Met Amit today

Her parents were here on Rakhi. She was full of energy till they were here. As soon as they went, she is like a falling card, she became weak, she became angry, she became arrogant.

She asked me, make a coffee. I said, I will make it just like tea, mix coffee and give it to you. She just said, I will make it. And, she made it and did not ask me for it. When she was having it, I asked where is mine, she said I did not make yours.

Communication ended here, on good note. I did not say anything. 

Its been 3 days, since her mood is bad. I asked her few times, I was kind of hesitant in asking her, as she could blast anytime. I knew about her. She said nothing. 

Today, I asked her again, come on what is happenning. She said she had overload of work, which I understood. She said, I asked you to make coffee, and you did not make it. I was surprised, I told her what happened on that day. If you could just say it again, come on you can prepare it like the way you want. I could try that, but no, your ego.

I calmly told her, when two normal person talks, its quite usual that if one person said something, other person can calmly or casually say something else. But no, for you, its either a yes or no. You live with your ego.

Its very difficult to live with such person.

Can you make a coffee for me? Ego?

Everyday, when I goto bring milk. I remind of her previous day behavior. And that made me sad always.
From last few days, I tried to divert my mind to somewhere else. And, my mood became happy. I promised at least, in mornings, I will not think of her.

I tried best to ignore her bad memories

If I ever need to remember her, I just remember her angry face and mood. She became angry for no reason. She can say bad things for no reason.

What reminds me of her, if I had to

Its been almost 13 years with her.
On whatever topic we discuss, our tuning never happens to be great. I always feel like she is dominating me. I never felt free while talking to her. She always trying to put her thoughts on me. Whatever I say, its all garbage to her.&nbsp;

We can't talk much. Its a fight of egos

First: https://www.lifeintext.com/journals/ayush-got-placed-happy-moment

He refused to join https://www.lifeintext.com/journals/ayush-decided-not-to-join-the-company!

Today he called and told me that he has joined it. His teacher has forcefully asked him to join. His reasos were not reasonable. Still he is no mood to join it. But, lets see.

Good thing is, he will get full salary. No internship.

Ayush joined the company

Few days back Ayush got a placement offer 

Today was his joining. I called him yesterday to know about his plans. I got a surprise when he said he is not joining and rejecting the offer.

- His mind is not giving him good signals

I was like, come on. You are taking a risk which may not be fruitful. It is the risk that he can not afford.

In evening, I also talked to Hitesh. And, he was also of the same opinion that he should have joined it.

And the thing he is not discussing these things with me. Where I was kind of involved much.

Gorav Singal

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