Adjustment in relationship

I always believe, relationship involves some adjustments as per your partner. Adjustment looks to be a negative word, but its the ingredient of relationship recipe.

Some people take it to their ego that, how can I change or adjust myself for my partner. I have lived 20/30 years living on my own terms. Which looks good. But, when you start living with a partner, or even room mates or office colleagues. You tend to adjust yourself a bit. Everybody is different.

I tend to adjust myself as per my partner. But, it hurt to the core when other don’t want to adjust an inch, rather they call you out every single time, that they are the way they are. You have problem in my every things. But the thing is, other person might also be adjusting to your 20-30% of things. If you keep rigid about yourself, you are failing the relationship.

Its very common to start expecting in a relationship. In initial days, your partner might be throwing endless promises, that they will do this or that for you.

That hurts, when you don’t keep up your promises. And, when your partner start realizing, that you tend to speak false promises, their trust will start breaking.

But when you stop adjusting, and be adamant to your ego or rigidness, you are moving towards a hurtful relationship. Always think, what if your partner stop adjusting to you!