Tired of adjusting to people | Hurt when other dont

I’m tired of adjusting myself as per people. I expect people to do the same. It hurts when other don’t, specially when the other person is your partner.

When you start getting irritated, or start getting offended by your partner words. The relationship is going nowhere. You are discouraging your partner, in speaking his or her heart out.

If your partner keeps criticising you, its wrong. Help him or her understand, how you feel. But, if your partner is making you understand in casual language, not criticising, then may you should have a look at it. And, there might be better words to speak, that you understand or not. But, if you bluntly say, you have problem with everything I do. You are shutting down your partner.

Think yourself, have you ever tell your partner about things that you dont like? Or, tell him or her that don’t do this, or do it like this. You are conveying things to your partner. And, think what if your partner also speak to you like this? Or, after your response, your partner also stop taking your words, and start speaking the way you do. You are inviting troubles.

And, I’m actually tired now. I want to be myself now. When my partner is not adjusting, I will also not. I will also not take her words now. Its give and take in a relationship. It should be equal.